I usually get on very early in the AM and it has been working a lot faster in this time period. I haven't even tried during the 9 to 5 period lately because it's been so show. I'll give it a try and see what happens.
Thanks for hanging in there. I will improve this situation. I have made some improvements, but a lot of this issue is at control of my hosting provider.
In the mean time I am trying to find a good, fast provider to host the site. Also in the works are some new features to the site.