It is, of course, predictable that our forum message board community can get a bit ornery as cabin fever sets in and we mull over perennial topics such as "Where can I fish during the closed season?" and similar topics that pop up every year (or the usual tired and circular spot-burning dust up). We're a diverse group of friends with many views and personal opinions.
Speaking as a forum member, and not as a moderator, I try to remind myself from time to time that it is often best not to comment in threads that are touchy or with which I don't agree. I've not always lived up to this discipline and have, on more than one occasion, mouthed off when I shouldn't have. All we can do it try to avoid such mistakes in the future (and maybe a well timed apology can help). Try to ask yourself before you hit "Submit": Is this worth saying? Do I really need to bring this point up - or is it better left unsaid? As the old cliche goes - try to "disagree without being disagreeable" if possible. I think, most of the time, we manage to navigate these waters pretty nicely.
Speaking now as a moderator.....We won't tolerate personal attacks, lewd behavior, profanity etc. That doesn't mean we can intercede every time someone's feelings are hurt due to a disagreement in a thread. It's worth remembering that this is a forum message board. People, commenting under an assumed name, can and will speak their minds. Ask yourself: "Am I being oversensitive? Could I perhaps put on my thick skin and not let this get to me or take these comments personally?"
All groups of friends and family have their disagreements. We're no different. Be respectful and, at the same time, don't be too sensitive. Think twice before you post and remember that all of us can see what you write.
