A friend of mine uses a knitting too to assist. IIRC, its a cross hatch needle?
Its basically a thick metal needle with the eye broken open to the outside.
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edit:
http://www.amazon.com/Fly-Shack-Leg-Knot-Tool/dp/B009SAOVDA
That, but the version available at your local fabric store.