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HELP , please

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The benefit you guys held for me was wonderful but, what was once a wonderful cause has taken a turn for the worse. Somehow, some way my daughter and ex-wife has misinterpreted what was a benefit to raise money for me to go up north to spend some time with my daughter during her operation, has turned into a battle, if you will, with my ex and daughter. They are under the assumption that I took the money under false pretenses and that the money raised should have gone to them and not to me to go up north. I am at a loss, my daughter does not want to see me and my ex-wife has gotten a restraining order barring me from the hospital and if I show up there, I am to be arrested. So, I am asking for your opinions on what to do with the money since I am not going to see her. As far as I can see, my options are...

1. keep the money raised to help pay for the insurance premiums
2. send the money to my daughter. Or
3. return the money to all. As some of the money has already been spent on insurance cost and work on the vehicle to get me up north, I cannot send all money back but, will give back as much to as many people as possible.

Please tell me your opinions on what I should do. I am heart broken over this whole mess and really need your help.

Posted on: 2012/12/9 16:35


Re: HELP , please

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I think you're putting everyone in a tough position. You can do what you need to with my 20.

Posted on: 2012/12/9 17:06
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I'm not trying to put anyone in a tough position. I just want to do what's right for everyone involved.

Posted on: 2012/12/9 17:16


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if you cannot see your daughter, I would make sure she gets the money somehow, and your ex-wife gets absolutely nothing.

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If you can't see your daughter, put it in a savings bond for her. Just my two cents.

Posted on: 2012/12/9 17:22
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I'm sorry to hear of your situation. For what it's worth, I don't want my $30 back. It was a gift to you. Do what you think is best for you and your daughter.

Posted on: 2012/12/9 17:49


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Well, I am thinking along the same lines and either opening up a savings account or even getting a bond and that way they will mature. I am sorry if you guys feel as if I'm doing an injustice to you by posting this but, it was your money you donated. It is just that I am so distrought over this. I will make sure that she gets the money and that it is in her name only so when and IF she turns 18, she will be able to draw on it. I will also make sure that I am the only one that has access to it so that I can continue putting money in as it comes.

Posted on: 2012/12/9 17:50


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that sounds like a good idea, and I for one, appreciate the honesty your showing us. Good luck, and hopefully everything will turn out for the best.

Posted on: 2012/12/9 17:56


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My comment was not intended to add drama to your situation. Only that there is no way that we could know the entirety of the situation, and therefore could not possibly make the best decision in this circumstance. You will know better than us.

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Re: HELP , please

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I would like to see my contribution refunded to Gfen and hereby request that he take those proceeds and contribute them in their entirety to St Judes Childrens Hospital.

Thanks

Posted on: 2012/12/9 18:07


Re: HELP , please

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Dear newtyer,

You can keep my money under one condition, you never darken the door here at PA FF again.

The choice is yours.

Regards,

Tim Murphy

Posted on: 2012/12/9 18:59
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Re: HELP , please

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Quote:

jdaddy wrote:
I would like to see my contribution refunded to Gfen and hereby request that he take those proceeds and contribute them in their entirety to St Judes Childrens Hospital.

Thanks


I request the same with my $20

Posted on: 2012/12/9 19:11
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Re: HELP , please

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perhaps all responses to his question should go through PMs or directly through email

Please consider in your response
he has made an attempt to be forthcoming and is reaching out for advice and help
the pressures he was, and now is, under
that all of this was thrust upon him quickly and unexpectedly, which may have led to some poor decisions.

newtyer see PM

Posted on: 2012/12/9 19:37

Edited by nymphingmaniac on 2012/12/9 20:25:02


Re: HELP , please

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Dear nymphingmaniac,

No, things should be kept right here on the front page.

Go back and search his history on this board and then come back and ask that things be kept private. I'm guessing you won't think the same once you do your research.

Here's the bottom line, a fraud needs to be exposed as a fraud.

Sincerely,

Tim Murphy


Posted on: 2012/12/9 20:37
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Re: HELP , please

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Over on the Ultralight FF board he's looking for a reel for an Orvis Superfine Touch Ultrafine and a 5 weight line. I guess that's what the money's for.

Link

Posted on: 2012/12/9 20:54



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